
We believe that who you choose to partner with is the most important decision of your life. It impacts you - mentally, physically, financially, literally how you spend your time on the planet. We also believe it is much more than a single decision, but a constant emotional reinvestment in a connection that will continue to evolve as you do. We support you through it and its evolution.
The biggest decision of your life
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Our Founder
Having witnessed eight loved ones go through divorces before the age of eighteen, Simran saw the impact an unhealthy relationship can have on one’s life. It made her curious - how do you build healthy relationships? She started asking that question in pre-school and hasn’t stopped since. Over the last twenty years she’s built an illustrious career that spans tech, finance, marketing, and coaching. Her big aha moment was when she learned to use leadership books not just at work, but for her whole life. The book that changed her life professionally and personally was The 15 Commitments to Conscious Leadership.
Simran started her coaching career as a public speaking coach in 2013. She expanded from coaching startup founders to leaders at Fortune 100 companies. While coaching, clients often
Simran | Founder | Coach
Our Team
Rebecca
COMMUNITY
Rebecca Donald started coaching by way of athletics Much of Rebecca's career is informed by her decade-long rowing career where she applies the same principles of teamwork, communication, and leadership. Rebecca is a fierce champion of people, thrives on building strong relationships, and possesses deep customer empathy. Rebecca earned her B.A. at University of Pennsylvania.
Ali
COACHING LEAD
Ali is a dating and relationship coach who has helped over 130K daters on their dating journey as the founder of @findingmrheight. She is quoted in The NYTimes, Elite Daily, and The Cut as the go-to resource for dating. She's also partnered with Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble. As a coach, she helps clients own their dating experience from improving profiles to feeling confident and enjoying dating. Now, Ali is expanding into group coaching to scale what works. Ali earned her B.S. at University of Pennsylvania.
Amanda
BEHAVIORAL SCIENTIST
Dr. Amanda Shallcross is a board certified integrative medicine physician and behavioral scientist. Her research focuses on emotion regulation, mindfulness, depression, and mind-body interventions to prevent and treat stress-related chronic diseases. Dr. Shallcross earned her Bachelor’s at Whittier College, her Doctorate at National University of Natural Medicine, and her Master’s Degree in Public Health at University of Colorado Denver.

Our Contributors
We have a team of folks who contribute to our blog, newsletter, and social media. They are newly single, all in committed, and everything in between. You will learn about their lives - where they live, what they do, what they dream about - through their contributions. Just like you’ll see in our community, it is the anonymity that frees them to be uncensored and vulnerable. But don’t worry, we know them really well and are happy to answer any questions you have. Just email us at hi@joinchemistry.com.
Interested in joining the team
Are you passionate about healthy relationships? We are always looking for folks to join us on our mission.